Today's life we have many challenges and we have so many complaints from LIFE. We deals many things with our relationship. Everyone is complaining in relationship from each others. Just stopped & think one COMPLAINT is comman and its a major.
A husband has complaint that his wife not listening him.
A wife has complaint that his husband not listening her.
A parents have complaint about their children that they are not listening.
Children having same complaint that our parents not listen us.
"Interesting thing is this nobody listening anyone."
Everyone think that I am Right.
"My wife usually teach my son in evening. She always complaint that he is not listening me and not doing home work properly. Sometime she shouted on him. After 4-5 days i intervene and asked to my wife why you always shouts on him. What is your concerns?
She shared with me that my concerns are only i want to see him perfect in study. I said i got it you are saying true. Every parents want his child do well in study.
I just validate her then i asked my son what is your concerns. Why are you not doing study.
He answered me Papa look our school teacher teach us in school then she give us same work for written & again give same work for Home Work.
I do my homework but Mom say do it more twice. Why should i do again and again one book work. I am feeling bore. I can remember in one time only there is no need to repeat.
My wife speaks to my son ok i will not give you extra work but you have to promised if you will get less marks then you will do study my way.
He said i promised.
Now just look in this matter when we listen our son then we get his world. We start relate him from there. He is doing well in his all test. Now there is no fight between mom & child.
This is just one sharing from my life. Just start listen to your wife,your kids,your parents & even start listening to your Customer what they want i bet you your relationships will go on next level. You will get maximum order from customer because you will provide them what they want.
So start LISTENING and see the Magic.
A husband has complaint that his wife not listening him.
A wife has complaint that his husband not listening her.
A parents have complaint about their children that they are not listening.
Children having same complaint that our parents not listen us.
"Interesting thing is this nobody listening anyone."
Everyone think that I am Right.
"My wife usually teach my son in evening. She always complaint that he is not listening me and not doing home work properly. Sometime she shouted on him. After 4-5 days i intervene and asked to my wife why you always shouts on him. What is your concerns?
She shared with me that my concerns are only i want to see him perfect in study. I said i got it you are saying true. Every parents want his child do well in study.
I just validate her then i asked my son what is your concerns. Why are you not doing study.
He answered me Papa look our school teacher teach us in school then she give us same work for written & again give same work for Home Work.
I do my homework but Mom say do it more twice. Why should i do again and again one book work. I am feeling bore. I can remember in one time only there is no need to repeat.
My wife speaks to my son ok i will not give you extra work but you have to promised if you will get less marks then you will do study my way.
He said i promised.
Now just look in this matter when we listen our son then we get his world. We start relate him from there. He is doing well in his all test. Now there is no fight between mom & child.
This is just one sharing from my life. Just start listen to your wife,your kids,your parents & even start listening to your Customer what they want i bet you your relationships will go on next level. You will get maximum order from customer because you will provide them what they want.
So start LISTENING and see the Magic.
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